
It didn’t take long to fall in love with Zahra, an orphaned lowland gorilla at the Milwaukee County Zoo. While serving as one of her surrogate mothers it was important to teach her the skills she would have learned from her mom. Part of that responsibility consisted of allowing her to ride around on my back, teaching her play behaviors, bottle feedings and sleeping with her on my chest or tucked under my arm at night. It was a strenuous and exhausting task but a once in a lifetime experience.

Her heartbreaking story turned around quickly as she is now with a gorilla family in Columbus, Ohio thriving with the troop. I will forever be grateful to be part of her journey. She instilled my insatiable appetite to explore and learn from her counterparts in the wild. I immediately started saving for a trip to Uganda: one of three places in the world to see the remaining 880 mountain gorillas. We share 98 percent of our DNA with these gentle giants yet we are destroying the habitat of some of our closest relatives. In doing so we are destroying our own. If an animal can be helped and the environment impacted in a positive way I will do it every time.

Choosing a travel partner is not something I take lightly. Molly is a true New Yorker in every sense of the word. She is also the type of person who will only fly first class yet will sleep in a tent on top of a mountain in frigid conditions just to see the sunrise in one of the most beautiful places in the world. We spent 4 years together in Hawaii exploring, hiking and experiencing all the islands have to offer.




When we went our separate ways not a week went by that we didn’t keep in contact. It only took 10 years to meet up again in Bali, again in a tent on top of a volcano so we could wake up to a brilliant sunrise. Only we ended up waking up to three visible planets and smoke coming out of a volcano as the sun rays kissed the landscape and reflected off of the Indian Ocean.


A few months later we met up for breakfast in London because we’ve never been able to make meeting up in the continental US feasible. When asked if she wanted to track chimps, do conflict mitigation between villages and carnivores and go on a couple gorilla treks, she reminded me that she just started a new job and is in grad school, then asked, “When are we going?” With our tickets booked on opposite ends of the plane, our bags packed and Visas processed, I am counting down the days to be back to the heart of our planet and the keeper of my soul.


































































